5 Family Poses That Loosen Everyone Up and Create Genuine Smiles!
Let’s be honest — being in front of the camera can feel a little awkward, even for us photographers! We’ve all had those moments wondering Does my shirt look weird? Is my hair doing something funky? Do I look stiff? It’s completely normal to feel unsure about how to stand, where to put your hands, or how to smile naturally during a photoshoot. That’s why clear, simple posing direction makes all the difference — and it’s exactly what we love to provide for our clients.
Over the years, we’ve found that the best photos often come from the moments between the poses — when everyone is relaxed, having fun, and genuinely interacting with each other. So, we always bring a few go-to poses to help families loosen up, shake off the nerves, and most importantly, capture real, joyful smiles.
Here are 5 simple family poses that help our clients relax and create amazing, genuine moments during a photoshoot:
1. The Airplane!
This playful pose is always a crowd pleaser and no, it doesn't require any heavy lifting! For this one, we have the parents embrace while the kids are directed to run circles around them, arms stretched out like little airplanes. The movement, laughter, and spontaneity create the most priceless expressions. The best part? There are no rules! We just let the kids be kids and the results are always pure magic.
2. Walking Towards the Camera
We’ll have the whole family line up and casually walk toward the camera. The trick? Talk to each other as you walk — look at your kids, laugh, maybe tell a silly joke. It takes the focus off the camera, creates connection, and naturally brings out those relaxed, happy expressions.
3. The Elevator
This little trick is a favorite for kids under 4, especially if they're feeling shy or unsure in front of the camera. For this one, parents hold their child close, and when the little one least expects it, they quickly bend their knees, giving the feeling of a sudden, playful "fall." The child stays safely snuggled in their parent's arms, but the surprise always brings out the best giggles and genuine smiles. It's the perfect way to break the tension and capture a sweet, joyful moment between parent and child.
4. The Tickle Attack!
You can never go wrong with a good tickle fight. We’ll guide you into a snuggly group pose, and then — cue the tickles! It instantly relaxes everyone and guarantees genuine smiles (and sometimes hilarious belly laughs). These are always some of our favorite shots.
5. The Blanket Tunnel
This one is a hit with younger kids! Parents hold up a blanket like a tent and fluff it in the air while the kids run underneath. It feels like playtime — because it is — and results in those playful, carefree expressions that can’t be forced. Plus, the movement of the blanket adds a fun, whimsical touch to your photos.
The Bottom Line?
The best family photos aren’t about stiff, posed smiles — they’re about capturing connection, play, and those little in-between moments that show your love and personality. So if you’re feeling nervous about your next session, don’t worry — we’ve got your back with simple, fun poses that bring out the best in everyone.
